FRIENDS.

ACT NOW.

Alot is wrong or going wrong with this world we live in,slowly things or should i say everything seems to be falling apart every where.things are happening now more than before,our individual lives,families,work places and all around,has any one or is it just me who has taken time out to wonder why now diseases like stroke,diabities e.t.c which use to be the old people(no disrespect)thing now kills and afllicts the young?,a simpl answer our bodies are or have been defiled,its now dirty with sin and he who is clean cant dwell within the temple(our bodies)anymore.
our or most of our grand parents and even some of our parents were or are still married after all these years,yet a close look into our generation will only reveal one's worst fears,the rate of divorce is at its hight,i'm not married myself but a look at the lives of married couples around me is not encourageing at all,most of whom dated for long i then wonder if they were ever in love,im forced to ask this cos of what happens or is still happening in these homes.
Natural disasters,i know for certain when i was growing up they did nt happen often,a simple flip to any news channel nowadays will show that really the world as we know it is coming towards its end as stated in the book of revelation in the bible.how or where we end up depends on each and everyone of us,make hay while the sun shines this simply means ACT NOW,why leave untill tomorrow what you can do today?
I strongly suggest we get on our knees and not only pray but ask for the devine strength to be able to live worthy lives ,and follow in the foot steps of the master.im not trying to preach but dont you think its time we asked for help from one who can actually render it? i do.
Think about it.

LOVING LIFE

I love life,every aspect of it,family,friends,work,the ups and downs,the good,the bad and the ugly.i know i might sound crazy for saying i love life inspite of the bad and ugly happenings around me and the world over,about three weeks ago a dear cousin of mine passed away at a tender age of 28,yeah i know bad things happen to good people and she was one of such persons,she always had a smile no matter what she was going through,she was also someone you could count on for comfort or advice.she loved life and encouraged me to do same,go out there have fun life's short and you'd only get one chance to live it,were her words of advice to me always.It is sad and heartbreaking that my cousin and others in china,nigeria and all around the world are not here with us anymore,but we are still here,we should be greatful for this wonderful gift of life bestowed upon us by God,by loving every single minute of it.
Be happy,open up love and be ready to be loved,learn to forgive no matter how much you've been hurt,try and be the best you can be and put a smile on someone's face.
Most importantly be that miracle,blessing in someones life,for what is the point of living if we cant reach out and make a possitive impact on the world and people around us?try it today for none of us knows how much longer we'd be here for.
Grace thank you for being a wonderful part of my life,i will forever love and miss you,good night and rest in peace,you deserve to.
Remain blessed.

...WAKE UP.

Lately my life has been a rollercoaster of emotions,why? you might ask.it's the simple fact that i open up and accept people for whom or what they lead me to believe they stand for,only to find out with time that no one is what he/she claims to be,the discovery of which only leads to the rollercoaster of emotions, anger,hate,selfpity,heatred,disgust e.t.c.
A good friend of mine called today, a blessing i would say cos we had this talk and you wont believe what she said to me after i went on and on about the fact that i 've learnt life's lessons and would take my time to really know a person,she said every one me inclusive works hard at leaveing a good first impression and a few more after that once this happens our emotions take to play, creating within our minds this wonderful concept or perception of the subject in question there by hindering us from actually seeing the complete picture.
We hold on for as long as we can to this beautiful image we have concived within our minds and refuse to notice even when things are glarinlly going wrong,our comfort zone i call it,that wonderful place you visit within you to keep hope alive,only for it to be dashed once again.
A simple solution to all of this is to wake up and smell the coffee,what im trying to say is we should take our time to see and accept people and things the way they really are and not the images of them we want or are comfortable with,as this will save you and i the hurt of finding out we were asleep all this while.
Good night.

BE THE DIFFERENCE.

Tried of hearing people complain about how nothing seems to be going right in their lives?,well i use to be one of such persons i blamed everyone else besides me when things ant going the way i want,its funny that as we live our daily lives we forget to stop and ponder just maybe we are the problem.

I remember way back then when ever i failed an exam or a test i would alway blame the teacher for not likeing me,or when a relationship goes sour it was always the other to blame,sound's familiar? well we all go through life pointing fingers or blaming others for the wrongs in our lives,a word of advice here try to take a positive step towards making right that wrong in your life,easier said then done yeah(LOL) i know 'cos it always feels better to have someone or somthing to blame.
Be the difference,be that one person or group of persons who take responsibilty for the mistakes or wrongs in their lives lives,a change a day would make a difference try it.
Chao.

Baby Steps

Remeber seeing a baby trying really hard to take that first determined step?,well at one point or another our lives consist of those first steps, relationships,actions, decisions and what do you know our ways of life too.
I dont consider myself a sessy but then im always afraid of taking thoes first few baby steps towards accomplishing anything,now that i think of it all babies around the world deserve a hearty cheer from us all,for dearing to make the bold move.
I had a hard time falling asleep yesterday,reason i kept asking myself girl what the hell do you think you re doing?. i had always wanted to write,but that is one of the many stories of my life.
Im glad i took this bold step, with advice from a good friend of mine who said to be myself cos from here it will be a smooth path,ill keep you posted.
Cheers.

A step at a time.

This post marks the beginning of my page so i figured a step at a time would be or make an appropriate title.
As i sit before my p.c i cant help but wonder if i can actually own and manage a blog,but as i said a step at a time.